I know this is a little taboo for some audiences. This is my life and my belief.
If God came down and handed you a gift and said here I made this for you. How would you treat that gift? I would protect it with my life, give thanks every day and cherish it. So why are men so manipulative, abusive, aggressive, hateful and neglectful when it comes to their wives? God said my sons, you are to never be alone I am giving you this gift of a wife by your side. He created us to be pleasing in all ways to men. From our shape to our nature. He gave us a lot of thought to appeal to the one he already created. Yet men see women as objects to be conquered rather than cherished. Why is this? Is it the nature of their flesh or the bonds of the enemy? All of our tendencies as women are to be loving, caring, care takers, mothers, wife's of these men. Then they sleep around, neglect, abuse, use, rape and leave us. What is their problem? Men listen up! Your wife is a gift from God, don't view her with your flesh that gets bored, angry or any earthly emotion. View her as a personal gift from God. No she is not perfect for she is made of flesh as well, but here is the kicker you determine how she feels. If she is naggy, upset, crazy woman, look to your words and actions. Most of the time women feed off their husbands attitude and actions to determine how she feels. If you are not leading her in the right direction with the proper hand and attitude you are going to get a wife that feels ignored so she will nag. A wife that feels neglected will complain, a wife that feels used as a maid, diver, babysitter, financial advisor, bill payer, driver, cook and all other duties a wife does for her husband she will revolt! This is why it is important you speak gently to her often, listen daily and worship with her weekly. Just a little effort on your side will Crete a big difference over all. So men before its to late take time to water your grass so it will be greener instead of jumping the fence to other pasters. Eventually all grass dies if it is not cared for.
American momma!
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